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What is Effective Parenting?

January 13, 2021

Parenting is a challenging yet fulfilling job that requires daily commitment to develop a healthy relationship with your child. While ensuring your kid has all their basic needs met is a big part of the job, there’s much more to do to be an effective parent. You’ll need to interact and engage with them to help them learn and grow into remarkable individuals. 

 Effective parenting requires parents to spend quantity and quality of time with their children while respecting their space and boundaries. Children of effective parents have a better understanding of the world and what will be expected of them when they grow up. A healthy relationship between parents and children ensures the well-being and healthy development of the child. Ever since they’re born, children rely on their parents to protect, nurture, and care for them. 

During early childhood, our brain is rapidly developing, so it’s crucial in this stage for parents to impact their kids positively. A parent’s job is to help their child build and refine their knowledge and skills, outlining a path for their health and well-being during childhood and beyond. Furthermore, effective parenting also impacts parents themselves by enriching and giving focus to their lives. 

How do you know you’re an effective parent?

Effective parenting isn’t linear. After all, we’re not perfect. We’ve compiled some questions you can ask yourself to get some insight into your parenting tendencies.

  • Can your children predict with precision what will happen as a result of their misbehavior? 

Effective parents ensure that their children understand the rules and expectations they need to fulfill in their household. Also, effective parents help their children understand that consequences are directly related to their behavior.

  • Within your parenting tools, do you have light, medium, and heavy consequences?

Parents need to recognize that children making mistakes is entirely different from disobedience. Mistakes are learning opportunities that help children remember what is expected of them. However, parents shouldn’t accept disobedience. Children shouldn’t challenge parental authority. Usually, kids challenge the rules when they want to test boundaries. For this reason, punishment should be firm and swift but also loving, kind, and sympathetic to the plight of the child.

  • Do you engage in meaningful activities or conversations with your children every day?

It’s a priority for effective parents to be actively involved in their children’s lives. Children need quality time with their parents, from loving and meaningful conversations to engaging in nurturing and fun activities. Reading books together, preparing meals, playing board games, and going for walks are some of the things you can do to connect with your child

  • Do you take time to talk through misbehaviors and misunderstandings when you are calm and collected?

Misbehaviors and misunderstandings are teaching tools for effective parents. Discussing expectations and helping kids step back and analyze their motives and reasons for misconduct provides them with the tools they need to develop self-control.

  • Is your goal to help your children become competent adults with the tools they need to face the world?

The real test of parenting is in the adults their children become. Parents need to stay focused on helping children learn from their mistakes and help them to use what they just learned. They are more concerned with the final person their children become rather than the bumps in the road.

  • Do you lead by example?

Children will base their lives upon the examples their parents set. After all, actions speak louder than words. If you want your child to be sympathetic and kind, they need to see their parents have those qualities.

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